So month to month I get notifications of her updated predictions and my personal astrological prediction for the upcoming month. Can I just say how NOT pleased I was to read July 2011's prediction for me? For the record, in Western Astrology, I am a Libra, but in Vedic, I am a Cancer, and you can figure this all out for free on her website using her calculator tools but you must know the time at which you were born. So, I look up Cancer for July 2011 and read the update below:
"Cancer July 2011
Friendships End
Your friends are unstable and can cause a scene. A friend will disappoint and leave your life. It is time to find friends that support you."
That's it. That's all. Nothing more, no elaboration. Wow. Ugh! All of my previous updates were positive and sometimes mysterious and kept me on a good page. This one just turns me off. I feel like I've been dealing with friend drama since I can remember. Girl friends used to get mad at me in middle school for inviting the new kids to join our group. I have had some truly amazing friendships that all of a sudden just fall apart and I'm not quite sure why. There have been more recent ones that have gone kaput but I *do* know why and they have made sense to me, one, which was resolved years later and now we are close again after talking about what happaned and another one which I truly, truly miss and I need to send her a message or something soon, but otherwise, I haven't had any regrets in the losing friends department.
I agree that we should all have friends in our life that are supportive and that don't disappoint us but it also depends on our expectations of that friend, doesn't it? I guess I naturally expect in return the friendship, time, and devotion that I put into a friend relationship and if I don't get that in return, I begin questioning it and why am I bending over backwards for someone that doesn't make time for me? I'm not saying this is right but I'm saying this is naturally what I trend towards.....
The whole set of predictions for July 2011 and on was kind of crazy anyhow so to read this on top of all of that just kind of freaked me out. I don't think I have any friends that will disappoint me but who knows? Yuck. I'm going to try and not think about it and let July 2011 be what it will and hope for the best! :)
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Oh geeez! That is kind of scary but as you pointed out that when friendships end (or relationships) it's usually for the best, though it sucks in the process.
Sending positive vibes your way!
Some friendships are maybe forever but some are not meant to be. I think that we also have friendships in different phases of our lives and when it changes also the friendships are become loose and end eventually.
I couldn't agree more with you as you wrote that it is also about expectations. You expect the same that you give but it can be never the same as the people we are friends with are not the same as we are. So in my experience better to expect nothing and get nearly all in return.
cheers and stay positive and everything will turn out as it should be!
Nina
I hope your June prediction was wrong and your July prediction is better! But as a friend that made it through the month (I hope ;), I just want you to know how much I appreciate you! I adore you Heidi and am thankful for our friendship every day! XOXOXO
Kristin
Eek! I don't know how I missed this WAS your July prediction! Boo! Now the beg of my last post makes no sense. Ok now that you have warned us we just need to band together for you as your friends and not let you down! Have faith sister! XOXOXO
PS I don't like the "new" signs - finding out I'm not a Libra anymore is like losing part of my identity. I'm going to see what this lady says I am. . .
Nice Information Shared.
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